Get curious about each other againGoing deeper together.
CLOSER $1750 NZD
A bespoke 7-session journey to enliven your erotic connection — your desires, your patterns, the way that touch makes you feel. There's you. There's your lover. And then there's the loving between you.
7 x 60-minute sessions via Zoom
A combination of shared sessions and at least one individual session each
Personalised notes and practices included
Weekly or fortnightly — whichever rhythm works for you
Pay in full, or invoiced session by session as we go
A Discovery Call is a free 20-minute Zoom call where we meet, explore what's bringing you here, and feel for whether CLOSER is the right journey for you both.
Where couples meet
Most couples want to want each other. But they may not feel safe enough to be honest about what they want — or may not yet know what that is. Maybe sex has become something they work around rather than into. Maybe love is present but the erotic thread between them has quietly frayed.
CLOSER is a way to feel for deeper erotic connection — more closeness, more arousal, more passion, together. Real change rarely happens in a single conversation. It happens through practice over time — which is what this journey makes possible.
This isn't about fixing anything. Nothing's broken. The gap between couples? It's where they actually meet and get curious about what's alive in it.
I work somatically — which means we get curious about what's erotically alive for you both.
Your bodies hold information your minds may not have found words for yet, and together we learn to feel for this. Awareness, breath, soothing and sensual touch, and gentle movement guide our work. We explore the patterns, beliefs, and stories you each carry — and what you're ready to shift or reframe. Education, skills, and embodied practice are woven through everything we do.
How the journey unfolds
Every CLOSER journey is shaped entirely around the two of you.
A natural arc guides our work.
In the early sessions
We slow down and get curious. Together we begin to understand your nervous systems — what safety and ease feel like, and what tends to shift you out of connection. We name the patterns that have been quietly shaping your erotic life, and start building a shared language for what you both feel and want.
At least one individual session each creates space for anything that feels important to explore on your own, whether or not it's brought back into the shared work.
Through the middle
We feel for what creates charge between you — and what gets in the way of it. We try things, we experiment, picking up what's useful and leaving the rest. We explore the beliefs and scripts that have been running beneath the surface – noticing how they keep you stuck, and reframing them toward what you want to feel together. You build a growing repertoire of solo and shared practices to take into your own time and space.
By the final sessions
Something between you will have shifted. Not because we fixed anything — but because you've been exploring new ways of being with each other. More honest. More curious. More erotic. This is the work that can bring you closer.
You might be here because
You barely have sex anymore
Every time you try, it's awkward, charged, or simply dropped. The more you avoid it, the less sex you have — and the more stuck you feel.
You've never enjoyed sex together — and you're not sure why
Something has always felt slightly off, slightly underwhelming. And maybe you've never felt brave enough to say so — until now.
Nothing's actually wrong — you just want more
You're not in crisis. You just know there's more aliveness, more pleasure, more connection available between you — and you're curious to create it.
You have sex — but it's not doing it for either of you
It's become routine. Functional. Something you get done rather than something you savour. Deep inside, you both know it.
One of you wants sex and the other doesn't, or not in the same way
One of you feels the sting of rejection. The other may be carrying guilt. And underneath it all you really miss each other.
You can't talk about sex together
It's been weeks. Maybe months. A quiet distance has settled between you and neither of you quite knows how to cross it.
WHAT A CLOSER COUPLE SAYS
Thank you for your generosity and the memory of our journey that you have brought to each session helping us to feel your support is alive and informed by all we have done before. It has been really valuable. The lessons are still sinking in with further benefit to be realised.
— M & D
CLOSER is a love story for the two of you — and it begins by getting together to feel for possibilities.
embodied
together
curious
honest
playful
aroused
alive
closer