Feel alive in
your erotic lifeImagine feeling curious about what brings you alive and free enough to follow it.
FOR INDIVIDUALS
ONE $1295 NZD
A bespoke 7-session journey.
You might feel desire flicker in and out of reach. You might sense arousal, but not quite know how to follow it. You might be curious — and not yet sure what your body is moving toward. We start with whatever is showing up in your body.
ONE is an invitation to become more intimate with your body's signals, recognising what turns you on, what doesn't, and what you want more of. Together we trace sensation in your body — until desire stops being something you think about and becomes something you can actually feel. You'll find language for what's happening inside you, so you can ask for what you want. Each 60-minute session via Zoom is followed by personalised notes and practices. ONE is an exploration in desire, just for you — one session at a time.
FOR COUPLES
CLOSER $1750 NZD
A bespoke 7-session journey.
Two bodies. Two nervous systems. Two sets of desires. The electric space where they meet is where we begin.
CLOSER is an exploration of what's alive between the two of you. The gap between your desires is often where couples get stuck but it's also exactly where your erotic edge lives — because that's where the learning is. Learning to feel safe enough to be honest about what you want, what you don't, and what you're curious about. Finding the playfulness that lives on the other side of that honesty. And discovering how two people, when they feel at ease, can really meet each other. Each 60-minute session via Zoom is followed by personalised notes and practices. CLOSER is a love story the two of you recreate together.
FOR WOMEN AT MIDLIFE
RIPEN$1295 NZD
A bespoke 7-session journey.
Women are often told a story — that desire disappears at midlife, satisfying sex belongs to younger bodies, and sensuality has an age limit on it. Your body didn't get that memo.
RIPEN is a rite of passage for women curious to explore what their own story actually is. We slow everything right down, giving your body generous space to relax and open. We feel for different layers of arousal and desire — and expand touch and sensation into a whole-body experience. This is a time to please yourself — simply because it feels good. Each 60-minute session via Zoom is followed by personalised notes and practices. RIPEN is an act of love for the body you're in — an intentional turning toward yourself.
Not ready for a journey yet?
A single session can be a gentle place to begin – and to return to, whenever feels right.
Single Session
For individuals or couples.
A single session is a spacious, embodied conversation — a chance to slow down, get curious about what’s alive in your erotic life, and feel for what’s longing to be felt.
60 minutes via Zoom · Personalised session notes included.
$225 NZD
WHAT CLIENTS SAY
Upon entering a new relationship I was terrified to discover how disconnected I had become from my sexual self. I had lost knowledge of what aroused me, and experiencing erections during love making was an uncertain thing. Kirstie commits fully to supporting you working through any worries, doubts and setbacks as well as recognising and celebrating breakthroughs. She brings a loving, caring and compassionate approach to her work; she listens deeply — and commits to the wonder that is you.
— DD
How we work together
Sex and intimacy coaching is a supportive and practical way to explore your eroticism. We meet via Zoom — sessions are fully clothed, completely confidential. There's nothing you need to perform or demonstrate.
We create intentional space to slow down and feel for what's alive in you. To become more aware of what's happening in your body during sex and intimacy. To create more of what you want. To talk about things you may never have said out loud.
We work somatically — feeling for ways to create the kind of charge your body is longing for. Awareness, breath, sensual touch, and gentle movement are our guides. We explore the patterns, beliefs, and stories you carry, and what you're ready to shift – always at the pace your nervous system allows. Co-created practices help take this work into your daily life. Each session is a welcoming, confidential space where you're met just as you are.
A note on pleasure & orgasmicity
Most of us were handed a very small map of pleasure — one that points to a single destination and tells us this is the whole territory.
But your body knows otherwise.
Orgasmicity is the possibility that your whole body — not just the obvious places — is available for sensation and arousal. Sensuous. Alive.
Part of being an erotic explorer is getting curious about how vast your pleasure map actually is — and what might be waiting in the territory you haven’t yet explored. Many people have never been given permission to ask that question. Or the safety to feel for the answer.
This is a quietly radical thing to explore together. And the map? It just keeps expanding.
Your body was made for giving and receiving pleasure
— and so were you.
embodied
sensual
curious
connection
arousal
pleasure
desire
free
alive