Notes We've narrowed tantra down to a bedroom technique. But what if it's actually a way of being in the world – one your nervous system already knows?
When desire doesn't line up between partners, we often try to close the gap as fast as possible. But what if the gap itself is where real intimacy begins?
A poem about the quiet wonder of turning toward your own body – with curiosity, with tenderness, with care.
Your body was made for pleasure – including the kind you give yourself. Self-pleasure as something to be embraced, savoured, and returned to.
Your nervous system has been tracking safety since before language existed. The three states running quietly beneath everything you feel – and a practice to anchor into ease.
The world has a story about menopause – that what follows is less. Here's another one: a body in transition is still a body made for pleasure, at every age and every stage.
Your body is signalling to you right now. The art of sensing in – and a practice to get you started.
Your body is in constant conversation with you via sensation, rather than words. A short introduction to somatic work, and why learning to feel – can be irresistible.
Erectile difficulties are more common than we talk about – and the shame around them even more so. Here's why a soft penis is available for pleasure too.
Claude is AI. My daughter is not. A reflection on co-regulation, human contact, and why the pulse between us is worth savouring.